THE SUBLIME DIVIDE.
I just realised something. Edmund always get called 'ah ma' by his girl friends (notice the space) in school. But now that he's a potential commando, I think they're gonna start calling him 'ah pa'. Everyone agree with me?! He can be a handsome 'ah pa' to them lah, it's fine.
I also think about really weird stuff before I sleep, but that occurs on an occasional basis. I thought about how guys have it easy throughout life. Firstly, asian sons are more valued in society because they can carry on traditions. Then as a guy goes on with his life, he realises that he doesn't need to give a hoot about how he dresses, nor does he really need to bother about what others think of him. As he grows older and national service comes in, well there's some suffering, but it's only short term. If you're lucky like me, it's one year and ten months. After that, it's mostly over. I think. I'm excluding the fact that there's re-service in the later years of a guy's life. But then, even when you think of it on an extreme level, a guy rapist can just do it with any girl he sees and he only needs to worry about contracting stds, if that's even a worry to him. I guess that's probably it.
When the females come into the picture and they get parents who're expecting a boy, boom, there goes the hopes and aspirations of a son. That's only for some cases of course, but I don't think such a mentality is that rampant nowadays... right? Next, they have to worry about how they dress and look, which will affect how others think of them. If a girl dresses like crap or looks ugly in some guys' perception, she gets added automatically to the blacklist. Plus, if she has a huge attitude problem, the negative perception is twice its impact, as compared to a guy's. Even though a girl doesn't have to go through ns, her life is constantly watched and monitored by on-lookers, and it's like as if there's no certain sense of security. That's why they're some of them who get so obsessed with beauty they resort to plastics, and guys complain. Well, it's a fact which I don't deny. And if a girl has casual sex, she has to worry about contracting stds, an unwanted pregnancy and how others would think of her as a slutty whore. That's about thrice of what the guy which I mentioned has to worry about.
At least that's what I thought about last night, and it's very true right. Guys may be more conscious of how the look nowadays, but the basic mindsets will remained entrenched in everyone's minds, and that's how the society works. Perhaps it's natural, but I don't think the blame game between the genders will cease anytime too.
I could go on to describe about how aids in developing and developed countries are spreading quickly and go research on some figures but I'm too lazy to do all that and this might become some online gp essay which my tutor might start marking while glaring at the monitor. Plus, I've got a chemistry test to worry about with ample memory work to do.
Sound the trumpets to usher the month of august! holidays :)


